Showing posts with label Top 5 Wednesdays. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Top 5 Wednesdays. Show all posts

Wednesday, 16 September 2015

Top 5 Wednesday: Books About Mental Health

Hello everyone, and welcome back to my first T5W post in what seems like ages! (It probably is ages...) I think I needed a great topic to kick my bum back into these posts, and what better one than this: books about mental health, so thank you GingerReadsLainey for choosing it! For those of you who follow my blog, I am sure you will know that I read A LOT of books about mental health. I think they play such a fascinating and crucial part in our society, as they raise awareness covertly. People who don't know that much about it may not want to sit there and read a science text book, but they will happily read a novel...never underestimate how much you can learn from a novel! The LGBTQ community has been getting fantastic coverage in fiction recently, and I think now the mental health community is at a stage where the stigma is low enough to allow for really honest accounts to find their way into mainstream fiction.

So, as you can guess, there are a lot of books for me to choose from! But here they are, my top 5 books on mental health:

5. The Man Who Mistook his Wife for a Hat - Oliver Sacks


Oliver Sacks was an incredible neurologist, who sadly recently passed away. He leaves behind my favourite non-fiction book about mental health. This book contains case studies of patients Sacks dealt with who presented with extraordinary mental illness. These accounts were absolutely fascinating, and really opened my eyes to how delicate our brain is, and therefore how easily it can go wrong. Not only that, but when people think of mental illness they think of it quite closed-mindedly: depression, anxiety, schizophrenia - but there is so much more out there which is rarer, so never gets the same level of awareness. An absolutely fantastic read.

4. Henry's Demons - Patrick and Henry Cockburn

I read this book a long time ago, but it has always stuck with me as it was incredibly powerful. It is a dual point-of-view autobiography, written by Henry who suffers with schizophrenia, and his father Patrick. Henry describes what goes on in his head during his episodes, and how he feels, but what made this book so powerful was the effect that these episodes had on his father, and how his behaviour looked from outside his own head. A really great book which I am sad didn't get the publicity it deserved!

3. The Bell Jar - Sylvia Plath

A classic, and rightly so, as this is an extremely important book! Plath wrote this when stigma shrouded mental health to a much greater degree than it does now, which made it an extremely brave thing to do at the time. It is such an observant, honest tale of mental health which I found to be extremely powerful. It is the only book I have ever read which left such an anger inside me that didn't disappear when I closed the book. It just made me so angry to read about the treatment of mental health patients in such recent history. Some of the imagery used, particularly 'the bell jar' itself was really thought-provoking and I cannot recommend this book highly enough.

2. The Shock of the Fall - Nathan Filer

What I loved most about this book is the important question it provokes. The story of a boy who loses his brother and lives with the (unfounded) guilt that it was his fault. Bereavement is normal, to be expected, and of course, everyone deals with it differently. But at some point in his bereavement process, he descended into a poor state of mental health, culminating in schizophrenia. Where and when did that happen though? At what point do we draw the line between someone who is bereaved and not dealing with loss very well, and someone who is mentally ill? I thought this was really fascinating. Filer himself was a mental health nurse, so the account is also spot-on and very well-written. Another fab book!

1. Reasons to Stay Alive - Matt Haig

Critics were so right about this one - it really could save lives! There was no doubt in my mind that this book had to have top spot. I knoww I have raved about this book before, but I don't think there are enough words in my vocabulary to explain quite how incredible I think this book is, so I shall just struggle on with repeating the words I have! This is Matt Haig's open and incredibly honest account of his struggle with depression and anxiety. It has everything - what seemed to trigger it, how it felt, and most importantly, what helped him to struggle on. It is a beacon of hope for anyone struggling with their mental wellbeing. There is a reason for everyone to read this book, as it contains short lists which could completely change your outlook. There are lists of things to say, and not to say, to people struggling with mental illness (and everyone, whether they know it or not, is living in close proximity to someone with mental health issues), and there is the list of 'reasons to stay alive' for people who are struggling. It would have those struggling screaming at the book saying "yes, yes, that's exactly how I feel!!" I seriously think this book should become part of the GCSE curriculum or something, just so that it forces everyone to read it! I cannot applaud Haig enough for being so brave as to share his story with the world :)

So there we have it, my top 5 books about mental health! Have you read these? Are there any others you think I should read? Please get in touch in the comments below. 

Honourable mentions also go to:
All the Bright Places - Jennifer Niven
The Silver Linings Playbook - Matthew Quick

Wednesday, 29 July 2015

Top 5 Wednesdays: Favourite Character Tropes

Hello everyone and welcome back to my ever-expanding blog! Today I bring you another Top 5 Wednesday list, inspired by the wonderful GingerReadsLainey. This week's topic of 'Favourite Character Tropes' was another difficult one for me (Lainey isn't making this easy for us at the moment!), as to start with, I am ashamed to say that I didn't even know what a character trope is! I hope I have now got the gist of it, as it'll be pretty embarrassing if none of the items on this list count as character tropes, but *fingers crossed*. 

So, without further ado...I should probably just launch straight in! 

5) A man considered to be a 'player' who becomes smitten with a girl and becomes tamed.
I have to admit, I tend to see this more in films, but I am sure there are loads of books too that I am overlooking! One that springs to mind is Gideon from the Crossfire series. He is the huge player who doesn't ever commit and has a hotel room permanently rented out for when he wants to bring random girls back. Then he meets Eva, and she is the first to be allowed into his home and into his heart and he settles and devotes everything to her...I love it! :)

4) An interfering family member.
Who doesn't love a bit of a family feud or drama?! I can think of so many examples of this:
- The whole family in Almost English
- The mother-in-law in The Other Woman
- The mum in the Crossfire series
- The sister in The Ugly Sister
All of these cause family drama, and it reminds me how lucky I am to have the family I do! :)


3) Really really kind and wonderful religious people.
I'm sure this is obvious to many people, but I think that these characters in books are so fantastic as they help to neutralise some of the bad press that religious people get! What with extremism etc (wow this is getting heavy..), many atheists can't see the benefit of religion. That's why I think it is so important that religion is represented in its way of creating wonderfully patient, kind and caring people, such as:
- Owen Meany from A Prayer for Owen Meany
- those who work in the convent in Instructions for a Heatwave
- the monks in Hector's Search for Happiness
- the sisters in The Secret Life of Bees


2) A romance that grants the couple a new lease of life.
Back on the loved-up theme, I love really cheesey stories where a romance can change a person's life for the better.
- Violet and Finch in All the Bright Places
-  Pat and Tiffany in Silver Linings Playbook
- Lou and Will in Me Before You
All of these characters are going through hardships, and in finding each other, they get a renewed faith in the beauty of life, and I love it! :)



1) An alien trying to make sense of human life.
This has got to be my favourite, because it makes for some hilarious writing at times! Some of my favourites are
- The Humans
- Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy
- The Lorien Legacies
An 'alien's' perspective on what it is to be human can be so refreshing and amusing at the same time. These books are thoroughly entertaining, and I would highly recommend them to people who want a little taste of SciFi! :)


That's it for another Top 5 Wednesday! I hope you enjoyed it. If you know of any other books which fit my favourite tropes, please let me know! Also, I'd love to read your lists, so please post the links in the comments below :) 

Wednesday, 22 July 2015

Top 5 Wednesdays: Characters Who Deserve Their Own Series

Hello everyone and happy Wednesday! It's time for another Top 5, a meme hosted by GingerReadsLainey. This week's topic is 'Top 5 Characters Who Deserve Their Own Series'. I actually found this quite difficult, because it is easiest to fall in love with the main character in a story...a side character has to be particularly memorable to be included in this list! But, alas, I have chosen 5, so here we go....

5) Cary from the Crossfire Series
The Crossfire series is based on Gideon and Eva's relationship, both of whom had abuse problems in childhood. Eva met Cary at a group for people recovering from childhood trauma, and I think he is just such a likeable character with a very A-list and exciting life, so I would like to read a book written from his perspective! Maybe not a whole series though...

4) Setrakus Ra from the Lorien Legacies
I'm sure many of you know how much I love the Lorien Legacies by Pittacus Lore! They are the story of 10 Garde members, sent to Earth to escape their planet which had been decimated by the Mogs. Setrakus Ra is the leader of the Mogs, and follows them to Earth, in an attempt to wipe out the remainder of their population He is so evil, and makes me so angry, but I would love to hear the story of the Mogs a bit more! We do get a little bit of that in the spin-off novellas, but it isn't nearly enough for me!

3) Voldemort from Harry Potter
Along the 'baddies' theme, I would definitely like to know more about Tom Riddle, and his rise to evil power. How did he recruit the Death Eaters? What made him turn so evil? I think that'd be a great story.
I would also like to praise the idea I saw on ATimeThatFlies: the Marauders from Harry Potter! SO true! How good would it be to learn about James, Lupin, Peter and Sirius at Hogwarts?! That would be so amazing!

2) Tiffany from Silver Linings Playbook
I love both Tiffany and Pat from SLP, but seeing as Pat is the main character, Tiffany gets this spot! I think Jennifer Lawrence is perfect to play her in the film too! She has issues, and a troubled past, and finds ways to heal herself through dance. I would love to know more about her history and her road to recovery! Again...maybe not a series, but definitely a book! :)

1) Daniel Cleaver from Bridget Jones
I was so proud of myself for this idea...I would LOVE to read a diary written by Daniel Cleaver from Bridget Jones. You could even do a dual POV thing with Mark Darcy to highlight the hilarious contrast between them! Daniel Cleaver is just such a cheeky bad boy that I think it'd be fab to spend a day inside his head!

So there you have it, my top 5 characters I would like to read more about! I guess most of them would work as a single book, rather than a full series, so I hope that's not cheating! What characters would you most like to read more about? Post the links to your T5W list below! :) 

Wednesday, 8 July 2015

T5W: Top 5 Things I Have on my Bookshelf Which Aren't Books

Hello and merry Wednesday to all you lovely people! :)

This was started by GingerReadsLainey!

Today's topic is not very bookish: Top 5 Things I Have on my Bookshelf Which Are Not Books. Luckily for me, this was pretty easy, as my bookshelf is very big, and as I am only living in this house for a year, it is not fully taken up by my book collection! :) This is the first peek into my non-book life you'll see, so I hope you're sitting comfortably!

5) Let's start with the least exciting...nice smelling bath things! You know when you get bought really nice sets containing lotions and potions to make you smell fabulous, and they look so good that you don't want to take them out of the box, so you have to display them until you have worked your way through them all? Well yeah, that happened here:

And yes...for the beady-eyed of you, that is my underwear in the bottom of the shot...cheeky ;)

4) Next we have my mug collection. Sadly, I am not a fan of hot drinks, but that doesn't stop me from buying and getting bought mugs that I love! Anyone who has been in a shared house will know that if you want to keep your mugs to yourself, you keep them in your own space, so here we are:
We have my 'Life's short, eat cakes', mug, bought by a best friend from school, my Minion mug from my lovely sister, and my Mickey mug which I bought myself from Disneyland Paris. The last one may take some explaining...it has the chemical structure for oxytocin on it, which can be called 'hugging hormone', and it is my favourite hormone *geek alert* as it is released whenever you are close to someone you love. I love this hormone, so my lovely boyfriend Charlie bought me this mug. Cringey, I know, but I love it :) 

3) Following on from that theme, I also have a picture of Charlie and I on my bookshelf, along with the card he bought me when we celebrated our 2-year anniversary last month. We got this taken professionally when we were on a cruise in April, and I love it! :) 

2) In at 2 are the only two of my ornaments which made it to my home for the year with me. One is my '21' Me To You bear, as I am a bit obsessed with Me To You. If I have ever bought you a card of any card, there's a high probability that it had this bear on it! Also, my Olaf ornament. I was so happy to receive this from Charlie's Dad, as it proved what I had already suspected, which is that it doesn't take too long of knowing me before it is obvious that I am completely obsessed with Disney!

1) Aaaand finally, at number 1, to further show my obsession (my linking is en-pointe today!), we have my Disney DVD collection. I am fully aware that it isn't complete, and it pains me because I started collecting the ones with the classic number in the little gold oval on the spine, but now they have stopped making those, so I have had to settle for some where it is just in white writing, so now they don't all match on the shelf :( But nevertheless, they are Disney films, they are amazing, and they are perfect for every situation, so I love them lots! Anyone close to me will know that adding to my Disney collection is the best way to my heart! :) *cough* HINT *cough*

That's it for another Top 5 Wednesday, thank you for reading! :) What else has made it onto your bookshelf which isn't a book? Post me a link to your T5W list below!

Wednesday, 1 July 2015

Top 5 Wednesdays: Favourite Chapter Headings

Hello everyone and thank you for joining me for my second ever Top 5 Wednesday!! This was started by GingerReadsLainey, and I have to say...this topic is a lot harder than last week's! I had to go back through all the books I have here with me, to find some that have actual chapter titles, rather than numbers! But never fear, I have found some fabulous ones...and I hope you'll bear with me as I go all English-Lit analytical on them! I hope you enjoy :)

5) "Detached nouns and the other early trials for the language learner" - The Humans, Matt Haig
Kicking off with a bit of Haig! I just love this because a) I don't know what a detached noun is...so how can I expect an alien/new English learner to?! and b) it just captures the essence of quirk which is so inherent in this fantastic novel!

4) "Is this question useful?" - The Shock of the Fall, Nathan Filer
This is the title to a very short chapter from Filer, about the questions mental health patients get asked, and how much they actually matter. Does a mental health practitioner have an expected answer/plan of action in his/her head? If so, does that change if the answer given is unexpected? Are mental health patients really listened to?

3) "A queenless colony is a pitiful and melancholy community; there may be a mournful wail or lament from within...Without intervention, the colony will die. But introduce a new queen, and the most extravagant change takes place." - The Secret Life of Bees, Sue Monk Kidd
This is a bit of a cheat...as this wasn't the chapter title, but the best example of the cute little bee facts at the start of each chapter in this book! I love how this gives bees a personality, and just think it is so interesting!

2) "U'KIP, If You Want, We're Awake" - Revolution, Russell Brand
Ah Russell Brand - who knew you were funny?! :P

1) "In praise of thin skins" - Reasons to Stay Alive, Matt Haig
"You need to feel life's terror to feel its wonder." This is just so beautiful, and comforting and motivational - I can't think of a better chapter title to top my list!

What I love about this topic was that it actually managed to tease out a few books that haven't appeared in anything else yet - yay! I think everyone is going to need to grow to accept that none of my posts would be complete without a sprinkling of Haig though!
Maybe I should rename my blog "The Shrine to Haig"...bit stalkerish??

Wednesday, 24 June 2015

24/6/15 Top 5 Wednesdays

Yay, it is time for my first Top 5 Wednesday (T5W). The topic this week is "Top 5 characters you wish you could drown", which I found to be quite a difficult one to start with! But here goes...

In at number 5 we have Setrakus Ra from the Lorien Legacies, by Pittacus Lore. I am OBSESSED with this series; it is the first series since Harry Potter that has had me hotly awaiting the new release. I was in two minds as to whether Setrakus Ra deserved a place in this list, as he is of course the super evil head of the Mogadorians (the baddies), but without him, would the story be as good? However, I decided that the Garde have enough to deal with by trying to fight all the standard Mogadorians, they could do with having no Setrakus Ra in their life...give them a break!!

Next at number 4 has to be Alex Castle, Audrey's evil uncle from Echo Boy, by Matt Haig. I really did hate uncle Alex, right from the beginning. The story tried to portray him as if he were helping Audrey at first, but I saw right through him, and hated that he had created a device that could just numb mental pain...who has a right to do that?! It seemed dangerous to me, and as it became clear that he had sinister plans, I just wished I could make him disappear. (I can't say much without spoiling!)

Possibly unfairly, but position 3 goes to Yossarian from Catch 22, by Joseph Heller. I may be using Yossarian as a scapegoat here and blaspheming against a 'classic', but I hate Catch 22!  It is the hardest book I have ever tried to finish because I just find it sooo mind-numbingly dull. As Yossarian is the main protagonist, the book would not exist without him...so I wish I could drown him so that Catch 22 didn't exist, so I wouldn't have got stuck trying to read it!

Just missing out on top spot, 2nd place goes to the infamous Christian Grey. I can't even confess to have had many dealings with him, but to me he just seems sooo arrogant and self-absorbed, what right does he have to treat women like crap and blame it on 'inner demons' and it being 'just the way he is'. In fact, this place can be shared by Gideon from the Crossfire series by Sylvia Day, but at least he does show a soft side at times!

1st place, without a doubt, is reserved for Cleo from The Ugly Sister, by Jane Fallon. I read this book very recently, and couldn't help but hate Cleo, the sister of the main character. I really tried to like her, she was lovely as a child and got whipped up into the modelling world and turned into a selfish diva. Abi had so much faith in her, and really felt that she could uncover the 'old Cleo', the one who was her sister and best friend, so I had hope too, right until the end of the book when I couldn't believe how bitchy she was!! I was so upset that there was no happy ending for Cleo in the end, that she couldn't turn out to be nice...so she earns my top spot as person I would most want to drown!

Okay so that's it! I hope you enjoyed my list, please comment if you have read any of these books and agree/disagree, I'd be very interested to hear! :)